Have You Ever Had ‘THE LIST?’

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Do you see that amazingly handsome man above? That's Alexander Skarsgard and he may be the most beautiful person I've ever seen in real life. When I got my first gander of him in True Blood, he became the star of my dreams. Then I met him in person and I completely whiffed!

Yep, that's me in the picture with Skarsgard complete with horrible bangs at the wrap party for the movie Straw Dogs that filmed right here in Shreveport-Bossier. I don't think I made a fool of myself, but I certainly chickened out, opting not to tell him that he was this married woman's dream man.

Did my now ex-husband know of my crush on him? Absolutely! He had a similar crush on Demi Moore. Trust me, when she was in town shooting that movie Mad Money, I told him to go for it if he thought that he had the juice. Of course, he didn't. Demi was tops on his list and Alex was tops on mine. So what's 'the list?' Easy, it's basically a hall pass to live out your wildest fantasies if you ever get the chance with your favorite celebrity... Not that there's a chance that it would ever happen.

Years ago at work, we'd update our lists on a weekly basis complete with well-thought-out reasons why someone had moved up, down, on to, or off of your list. We used it as a way to stay up on Hollywood gossip.

Sound a little weird? Sure, but I've never considered having an active imagination a bad thing. Wouldn't you rather your significant other or spouse talk to YOU about what they find sexy? Just a thought. Who would you put on YOUR list? I'd love to hear your comments!